I'm not sure this is the most constructive view. Could the same be said of commercial flight? To say that GA is so risky that it's simply a matter of time before it kills you sounds like surrender to me. I'd prefer to think of my flying one flight at a time. Why should any one flight be more dangerous than any single flight on an airliner? Is it the single engine? Buy/build a good one and monitor it. The lack of strict procedures? Make your own and stick to em. Worried about midairs? Get flight following and gadgetry.
I'm not trying to downplay the risks, but I sincerely believe that MY flying can be as safe as I make it.
Ahhh? But there is the rub: Your flying may be as safe as you can make it, true, but I?m sure the base jumper/free climber/cave diver can honestly say the same thing ? ?as safe as they can make it?. I think we need to realize that sport flying in itself is inherently dangerous and completely unnecessary, yet we do it anyway. When it comes right down to it we are not any different than the ?extreme sports? types.
To your other point, sport flying is a lot more dangerous than airlines because of more reliable equipment, better training, and strict processes found in airline flying. However, there is an important fact that is often overlooked in these ?apples to apples? comparisons, and some in this thread have nailed it: The ?fun? factor is very significant element in the mission profile of sport flying, yet it is completely absent in commercial operation. This huge variable, ?fun?, means different things to different people, and I think really invalidates much of the comparisons about safety. While our ultimate goal is the same as the airlines (completing the flight without injury) the risks taken on the flight are in response to the mission of the flight (i.e. ?transportation? or ?fun?). For example, half of my hours are spent going cross country with my bride on board (transportation). The mission requires getting from point A to B quickly and safely. For this reason, I fly at high altitude, use flight following, and fly the airplane like it?s an airliner. It?s as safe as I can make it, with huge margins for error. I also happen to find it very boring. Then there are the other hours that I fly, and the mission requirement is to have fun. This is where aerobatics, canyon flying, formation, cutting toilet paper, chasing rabbits, and other fooling around come in to play. Yes, I fly within my ?safe zone?, but my margins are much reduced and I know my risk of injury or death has just gone up considerably.
To make a long post just a little longer, I don?t think we are helping ourselves by pretending we fly for a practical reason and trying to draw a parallel with airline flying. At some level, we really are risk takers who enjoy a challenge. I don?t think this is any way surrender, but affirmation of reality.