Although I tend to agree with folks concerning "sticking to the plans", "keep it simple", and "anything you do outside of the plans takes you 10x longer" ...they are correct about the latter for sure... this is one area I personally decided to install a return fitting on mine. Of course we can't see into the future, but to me it seems likely that full-flow-return EFI systems will become more commonplace in the not-so-distant future. Especially in the E-AB category.
Installing it now adds minimal weight and cost (although a duplex fuel valve is indeed quite pricey if you get one now). Plus, it doesn't affect your standard one-way fuel systems either, so to me there was little/no downside other than some extra time and forethought. Yes, more holes equals more opportunities for leaks, but there's enough "opportunities" for leaks out there already. A leaky fitting is a lot easier to remedy than, say, an under-gooped tank rib.
As for the return location, I put my AN832-6D (full flow) about 1/3 of the way up the side baffle, at about the 4 o'clock position (L tank) from the fuel sender. No extension line, fuel will just dump out the open end of the fitting and back into the tank. Wherever you decide to put it, beware of the top corner next to the vent line, where it looks like a great spot to install the fitting... it will be in the way of the spar bolts. There was a post about this a few months ago. BTW- a million thanks to them (and this forum) for helping prevent me from almost surely making the same mistake!
People may argue to put the fitting higher than I did, but personally I don't see a need for that, and this is an excellent place for accessibility. As long as it's higher than the send fitting, you should be good to go. Also some folks may argue about running a line further outboard so the "hot" fuel doesn't dump out near the send fitting. While this wouldn't hurt anything to do so, it's my opinion that that is also unnecessary and it increases in-tank complexity. The returned fuel will mix very quickly with whatever is in the tank. I took my cue from automotive fuel tanks/senders: I've worked on several, and all just dump fuel right back into the tank, directly above the intake screen. I guess I've convinced myself there is no way my setup will draw worse/hotter/bubblier fuel than those configurations.
There are some photos of the tanks in my blog if you're interested, or feel free to send a PM and I can email you some. Good luck with your decision!