I think there is some bad info. here.
I was trained in chem-filming about 10 years ago by a pretty big aerospace supplier per the old Douglas Spec. (DPS). I'm sure its the exact same as any mil or ANSI spec used today so here goes:
1.) You should not alumiprep for more than 3 minutes, it weakens the metal, so if you already 33'd it don't do it again. I know of a case when someone left the parts in the acid bath for 10 minutes and proceded to the alodine, the parts were sent out for a salt spray test and they failed. You really only need alumi-prep for badly oxidized pcs., if they are already "clean" wash them with bule dawn and call it good.
2.) The dark gold is ok. It sounds like you dipped in full strength alodine which is not recommended but if you limit your dips to 1 minute it should be ok. To prevent wiping away your new coating DO NOT TOUCH THE PART WITH ANYTHING exept the rinse water (rinse well). Then hang to dry for a few hours preferably 24 hours. You don't need to rinse them twice but you can if you want. If you plan to prime and you touched the part and rubbed a little off don't worry about it, just try not to touch the parts.