I'm assuming you're trying to have the cowling match a perfect gap behind the spinner of 1/4 inch or so?
I'm no expert but I found instead of filling the gap with filler/balsa/fiberglass etc I found it easier to cut 2 or 3 inches behind the spinner on the cowling, clamp it in place and temporarily glass it.
Sorry no pics, I installed the cowling on the airplane and cut semi circles several inches back on the cowling around the spinner area that I wanted to fix. I was able to leave the pieces attached to the cowling, but the cuts let me manipulate the cowling behind the spinner where I wanted it. Using a spacer I clamped everything in place to the back of the spinner and used little fiberglass strips on the outside of the cowl to "hold" everything in place. When my fiberglass strips cured I removed the cowling, filled the cut/gap with flox and filler and topped with fiberglass on the inside of the cowl. I sanded down the fiberglass strips on the outside and fared it out with filler. I hope my description makes sense.
I almost piled on a lot of filler on the outside to match the rear of the spinner, I'm glad I didn't. Too hard to get it right and too many iterations of cowl on again and off again.
It was really hard to take the die grinder and make the big cuts, but very little work to make a perfect spinner to cowling gap.