There's another talk we should have with each other. Find the facts before impugning integrity and motive. Don't GUESS what someone's motive is, find out first.
In the original post there was no mention that the people being sued in this crash INCLUDE the widows and families of the victims. Both widows were lumped into the same category, even though they have different lawsuits. Left out of the original post also was the fact that a dentistis suing the widows for $7 million. In addition, Mrs. Lidle is suing Met Life because Met Life refused to pay the full policy benefit, and while there was a pilot exclusion in the policy (everybody check your life insurance policies lately), the ONLY way to sort stuff out with an insurance company is via a lawsuit.
Mrs. Lidle's job --as a mother and also as the executor of the estate -- is to protect the estate. Her job is to make sure people who have no connection to Lidle's flying, don't come looking for their own paydays. So make sure when you have that talk with your families, you give them complete instructions on how they're supposed to protect themselves since many pilots go cheap on the old insurance.
I understand, completely, the temptation to run to the high ground and determine that someone is cheap and greedy and only out for the money -- especially if we don't have to spend any time actually talking to anyone involved in the case before making the judgments. And, maybe your family will nod their heads when you tell them they'll have to live in poverty after you get cleaned out. But the orders in my house are and always have been the same even before I became a pilot: keep the kids safe.
By the way if you REALLY want to do something for your families, don't talk. DO.
-1- Make sure your insurance protects your estate.
-2- Have a plan for regular recurrent training.
Unless, of course, you think your famillies are supposed to take one for the old GA team.
You know, the other night I was doing a story about a smoking ban in Minnesota. It was one of those all-night debates and when the vote was finally taken, I noticed one lawmaker didn't vote, even though I know he was there for the debate I was watching. "What a jerk," I thought. "When the final vote came, he knew he'd upset a sizeable part of his constituency no matter how he voted, so he took the chicken's way out and didn't vote on the record."
I was even going to write something about it on a blog, but decided not to.
The next day I found out he got a call from his family after I'd already turned the debate off. His mother in law collapsed and was being rushed to the hospital.
She died.
It was a good reminder to me that just because I think someone is acting in a certain way and for a certain reason, unless I know ALL the facts, I don't know enough to make any conclusions.
Oh, by the way, after you lay all this out for your family and they say to you, "we don't you to fly; if you want to kill yourself, fine, but you're putting us at risk," what do you do?